My personal style could never be described as “Jackie O”. My hair tends to look windblown at best, and my dressy clothes are, these days, gathering dust in my closet. Park days, piano lessons, gymnastics lessons, and speech therapy sessions don’t usually demand pumps and a slip. More likely, you’ll see me in jeans or yoga pants with some oversized shirt. Glamorous! My mother is tall with narrow shoulders and a slim face and wears the styles I never could–full skirts, fussy tops, vests. She could never understand why her 5’1″ daughter with the big, full face and broad shoulders couldn’t float through the room in a circle skirt like June Cleaver. Yet, she couldn’t bring herself to tolerate the clothes I wanted to wear–empire waist dresses, wrap sweaters, and straight skirts. There was a compromise here and there, but she could be a bit of a bully about it all. The one thing she couldn’t stand was the one thing she could do nothing about–my hair. She would have loved it had I adopted a Grace Kelly do, but it just wasn’t in the cards. Classic good looks were NOT mine, and my style, though stifled for many years directly by my well-meaning mother and even after by my desire to please her as an adult, was actually more boho. You could read in her eyes the one thing she was thinking but wouldn’t say–TACKY!
So, at this stage of the game, why am I obsessed with 60s suits? (I’m a 70s girl!) Is it the desperate need to break out of my rut? Could the yoga pants and oversized t-shirts of my husband’s finally have caused some sort of meltdown? Am I secretly planning to shock the yoga pants off everyone else? Am I just missing my mom and wanting to please her?
One extremely appealing characteristic of these suits is how streamlined they are. Not many bells and whistles here. The extravagance would be in the choice of fabric and in lining. No embroidery, no ruffles, no crochet and NO SHOULDER PADS! I used to rip them out of my clothes, even in the 80s. Those of us with broad shoulders don’t need them! Never did!
Something else has me hypnotized, though. When one lays off the distracting embellishments, one gives oneself the opportunity to LAY ON THE JEWELRY!!!! Back up, people! I’ll need some room for the next post!
Your result for Are You a Jackie or a Marilyn? Or Someone Else? Mad Men-era Female Icon Quiz…
You Are a Marilyn!
Marilyns are responsible, trustworthy, and value loyalty to family, friends, groups, and causes. Their personalities range broadly from reserved and timid to outspoken and confrontative.
How to Get Along with Me
- * Be direct and clear
- * Listen to me carefully
- * Don’t judge me for my anxiety
- * Work things through with me
- * Reassure me that everything is OK between us
- * Laugh and make jokes with me
- * Gently push me toward new experiences
- * Try not to overreact to my overreacting.
What I Like About Being a Marilyn
- * being committed and faithful to family and friends
- * being responsible and hardworking
- * being compassionate toward others
- * having intellect and wit
- * being a nonconformist
- * confronting danger bravely
- * being direct and assertive
What’s Hard About Being a Marilyn
- * the constant push and pull involved in trying to make up my mind
- * procrastinating because of fear of failure; having little confidence in myself
- * fearing being abandoned or taken advantage of
- * exhausting myself by worrying and scanning for danger
- * wishing I had a rule book at work so I could do everything right
- * being too critical of myself when I haven’t lived up to my expectations
Marilyns as Children Often
- * are friendly, likable, and dependable, and/or sarcastic, bossy, and stubborn
- * are anxious and hypervigilant; anticipate danger
- * form a team of “us against them” with a best friend or parent
- * look to groups or authorities to protect them and/or question authority and rebel
- * are neglected or abused, come from unpredictable or alcoholic families, and/or take on the fearfulness of an overly anxious parent
Marilyns as Parents
- * are often loving, nurturing, and have a strong sense of duty
- * are sometimes reluctant to give their children independence
- * worry more than most that their children will get hurt
- * sometimes have trouble saying no and setting boundaries
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